In memory of Janice

Gallery: FloraPosted November 8, 2010225 views25 comments

..my sister-in-law who lost her battle to cancer last week. Lotus taken last summer by my wife for her sister.

She was a very talented artist and I was deeply touched by her interest in my photography. She took time and interest to view my gallery on this site and made many comments during her last 1 month whilst in hospital. In her last days, she talked about my images when she drifted in and out of her clouded mental states from the morphine infusion. The night before her passing, she asked me to show her my new postings but she drifted into unconsciousness the next day and departed peacefully.

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Comment posted by Luke Ormand on November 8, 2010 at 8:12 PM

That is quite the story Gary, sorry for your loss. It's good to know that your images were an inspiration and a ray of sunshine in an otherwise cloudy existence. Your wife's photo bursts with life and I'm sure is an excellent metaphor for her sister. Thanks for sharing, as it reminds us that there is more to life than getting the perfect shot.

- Luke

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Comment posted by SandyRichardsBrown on November 8, 2010 at 8:58 PM

Gary, What a lovely tribute...
I know your sister-in-law was touched and comforted by your (wonderful) work, and I hope you and your wife can find some peace and healing in that.
Sandy

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Comment posted by Pat Sampson on November 8, 2010 at 9:14 PM

I'm sorry to hear of her passing Gary. This is an exceptionally fine image and tribute.

Pat

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Comment posted by Carol Hyman on November 8, 2010 at 9:34 PM

Gary, please accept my sympathy. The lotus is beautiful and a tribute to Janice.

Regards,

Carol

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Comment posted by Bob Duff on November 8, 2010 at 9:52 PM

Gary, please accept my condolences on you and your wife's lose. This is most fitting tribute.

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Comment posted by David Rogers on November 8, 2010 at 11:53 PM

Gary - touching story and beautiful image. I know she is pleased with this.

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Comment posted by Mauro Pasquero on November 9, 2010 at 6:21 AM

Gary, I felt very sorry to ear your sister in law lost her last battle.
Please accept my sympathy. This wonderful lotus is a great tribute to her.
Mauro

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Comment posted by scott lanz on November 9, 2010 at 7:42 AM

You have my sympathy. The image is beautiful.

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Comment posted by Peter Conway on November 9, 2010 at 10:41 AM

Gary, This resonates with all of us. Thank you for sharing, it is beautiful in all respects.

Peter

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Comment posted by David W. Kelly on November 9, 2010 at 11:55 AM

I am sorry for your loss Gary. May you and your wife find comfort as you go through your grieving. This is a truly beautiful tribute to your sister-in-law.

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Comment posted by Daniel & Loana on November 9, 2010 at 4:53 PM

A very fine image and a lovely tribute, Gary.

Please, accept our sympathy.

D&L

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Comment posted by Christine Adams on November 9, 2010 at 6:45 PM

Ooh, that brought tears immediately to my eyes. What a nice tribute to her.

I'm soooo sorry for you and your wife's loss. It sounds like she was a great supporter of your photography. And your wife's image is very special. Please accept my condolences.

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Comment posted by Nathan Buck on November 9, 2010 at 7:00 PM

Wonderful and fitting tribute Gary. I am sorry for your loss.

Nathan

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Comment posted by Reed Bowman on November 9, 2010 at 9:21 PM

gorgeous colr and detail.. a beautiful image and a worthy memorial

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Comment posted by Wayne Rhodus on November 9, 2010 at 11:32 PM

Gary, it sounds like this is a very appropriate tribute for your sister-in-law and fellow artist. It is wonderful to hear that you were able to share the bond of artistry with her. My thoughts go out to your family during this time of grief.

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Comment posted by Catherine Reilly on November 10, 2010 at 1:42 AM

A touching and heartfelt tribute, Gary, that shows how much she meant to her and you to her. What a gift you gave to each other. Absolutely stunning photo, the flower so radiant.

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Comment posted by Krunal Janani on November 10, 2010 at 2:57 AM

Sorry for your loss Gary, u've given her a fine tribute with this image
May her soul rest in peace

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Comment posted by Bruce King on November 10, 2010 at 9:54 AM

Gary, very sorry to hear of your family's loss. A beautiful, heart felt tribute in both art and words.

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Comment posted by Larry Lynch on November 10, 2010 at 8:13 PM

My regrets and sorrow at your loss Gary. A beautiful tribute to a beautiful memory.

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Comment posted by Albert Darmo on November 10, 2010 at 8:58 PM

Gary, What a moving and heartbreaking story. My heartfelt sympathy for the family. This Lotus is a wonderful tribute to her memory.
Albert Darmo. Canada

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Comment posted by Miro Susta on November 11, 2010 at 6:33 AM

Very sad story Gary. I wish you and your family a lot of strength, but life must go on. Excellent photo in all aspects. I'm sure that your sister-in-law would love it.

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Comment posted by Morris McClung on November 11, 2010 at 11:03 AM

My condolences, Gary to you and your family. What a glorious tribute to her.

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Comment posted by Giuseppe Guadagno on November 11, 2010 at 6:00 PM

She would have been very happy to admire this last post, Gary. Really a splendid image, that seems without substance: only lines and light. Sorry for your grief.

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Comment posted by Patricia Brundage on November 11, 2010 at 11:18 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Your wife's image is a great tribute.

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Comment posted by Bill Fach on November 14, 2010 at 11:59 PM

Gary: Spectacular image and a superb tribute. May this bring back fond memories whenever you view it. >=))>

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